A couple of months ago, I was at Mom's house, and we were
going thorough a bunch of Dad's old stuff.
Some of it was throughout his life and some of it was from his time up
at the Wellsted.
One of the things we ran across was this:
This is a stack of cards written from Dad's
brother, my uncle, to Dad while Dad was sick.
Take a good look at this stack. It's
huge. And what I'm not showing you is
what is inside the card. It wasn't just
some token "Love, Your Brother" sign off. Each and every one contained a long, hand
written note.
Now, to those of you that
know my Uncle that will come as no surprise, as he is a man with a fantastic
gift of gab. But what is remarkable is
the quantity, quality and the care.
Remember: Dad was horribly sick for most of this period. And that upon receiving a card, and perhaps
reading it, he'd have no memory of it just seconds later. And at the end, he wouldn't have been able to
read it at all. But that didn't matter to
my Uncle - the cards just kept coming.
And while Dad may not have been able to enjoy them, I can't convey how
nice it was, when visiting Dad, to go through his "mail" and read and
talk about what my Uncle had written. It
was such a nice thing to discuss, but more than that, it always lifted my heart
to know that someone out there still remembered Dad was there and that somebody
still cared. In a very tangible
way.
As a big brother, I'd like to think
that what my Uncle did was just the kind of thing that big brothers do. But that would not be fair. His kindness a love were extraordinary, and
on behalf of the rest of the family, I'd like to thank him, albeit late.
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